What is Successful Nonmonogamy Anyway?
[Esquire, 04 April 2024]
Too much of a good thing
Can anything stop deepfake porn?
[Morning Brew, 29 July 2022]
A business model for sexually violating women
For These Gay Men, the Pandemic’s Sexual Drought Has Brought on a Personal Reckoning
[Esquire, 02 December 2020]
“A fly can survive without its wings, but what is it then?”
It’s not enough for J.K. Rowling to say her characters are queer. Show it to us.
[The Washington Post, 18 March 2019]
J.K. Rowling never had to fight for her freedom to marry, and it shows.
“You’re acting like a teenager!”
[The Washington Post, 06 July 2018]
In defense of the giddy summer fling
Can the Cocktail Industry Fix Its Sexual-Assault Problem?
[New York Magazine, 06 April 2017]
“Every day we're opening a new Pandora's box.”
In Havana, Gay Bars Hold Their Own Against the Internet
[The New York Times, 17 June 2016]
Cuba’s other time warp
The miracle AIDS drug that people refuse to take
[The Washington Post, 29 January 2016]
Truvada and consequences
My own rape shows how much we get wrong about these attacks
[The Washington Post, 01 July 2014]
Rape contains multitudes
Sex and the H.I.V. Morning-After Pill
[The New York Times, 29 June 2013]
A scare, followed by other scares
Gay Life Is So Pedestrian Now That You Can't Even Film A Porn At A Sex Party
[The Awl, 01 April 2013]
An artist’s plan falls limp
Industrial Porn and Magic
[Out, August 2010]
Michael Lucas is curdling
The Bromosexuals
[The New York Observer, 09 March 2010]
Dudes seeking dudes
Is Gay Just Another Word for Rapist?
[Out, December 2008/January 2009]
Trial and error at a gay Air Force captain's court martial
A Dating Service Gives a Nod to Jewish Gays
[The New York Times, 08 January 2006]
When two gay triangles like each other a whole lot, they make a Star of David
Women Raping Men
[Details, April 2004]
Rape often isn't seen as a crime when women do it
Sex on Campus
[Playboy, October 2003]
The magazine's first — and only? — gay male porn shout-out (with photo!)